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A Different Perspective on Coaching Women

You've seen them around.  They drive cars, dance, and even show their faces in public (conditional upon religion). That's right, I'm talking about women. This demographic is now an ever growing part of the strength and conditioning world and chances are, you or someone you know will coach them. This phenomena (apparently) begs the question: "How exactly does one go about doing that?".  In so many words, what distinct tactics are required and employed to satisfy the training needs of the fairer sex?

First of all, I think it's worth noting that it is predominantly women that are posing this question.  Second of all, what that fuck kind of question is that?  When the topic of "how to coach women" is discussed it is rarely in context to our differing physiological and hormonal responses to training.  Instead it's directed towards what I would consider to be some pretty antiquated and nonsensical myths about how women should be coached.

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There's a Catch-22 when it comes to writing about ladies. On one hand, it is abhorrent the way some women claim to be uniquely deprived training specimens, portray themselves as gentle anomalies in a sea of tactless brutes, and perpetuate their own inferiority by demanding special treatment. On the other hand, I happen to be one (girl power n' shit). While acknowledging my own hypocrisy, I would like to present an often overlooked and underrepresented perspective. It seems that for every twenty or so generic articles on how best to coach women I come across, there exists maybe one comment, post, or article that adequately represents the "calm down, Alanis Morissette" contingent among us.

As a preface, I realize that this article is just another frequency on the "noise" spectrum and I'm under no illusion that my points will be well received by my amigas. However, there is a shitton of chatter on this particular subject and in attempt to bring some balance to the force, I'll provide several points that I wholeheartedly believe in. Do I care about arguing the validity of my statements? Maybe.  Keep in mind that these are merely opinions that have been amassed over years of experience being two things: 1) a female 2) coached.

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  • 1. Don’t train them differently than guys. Listen, scientifically speaking, we do have tinier brains but we’re not idiots. If we are anything, it’s fucking observant. We’ll know if you’re coddling, condescending, or just flirting and generally not coaching.
  • 2. Don’t automatically give them a women’s bar. I’m not sending some sort of grandiose message about gender equality, I just don’t think it’s necessary to do anything but maximal, RM-style, dynamic pulling with that little matchstick. Usually they are in short reserve so save them for the more petite gals on the lady continuum.
  • 3. Whenever logistically possible, allow men and women to work on the same platform. This will only encourage both men and women to lift more weight. Gals will be trying to catch up to the guys and bros will be terrified of being out-lifted by a broette.  We call this a “win-win” in the biz.
  • 4. Don’t be weird. You know what I mean. Don’t try and make eye contact with your female athletes during manual resistance adduction. You would never do that with your male training partners…unless of course they were into it...in which case, lose yourself in the moment.
  • 5. Picking weights for women. Think 60-66% of what a strong man would do. That’s ambitious for most women and the last thing you want to do is low ball a girl by saying “hang cleans at 65lbs” as a default.  She might just ask you to kindly walk into traffic.
  • 6. “Girls need positive encouragement”.  Well, no shit.  That’s like saying – “My dog likes it when I scratch his belly.”  Everyone likes positive encouragement but if it isn’t warranted, don’t give it. See #1 and don’t be my cheerleader.
  • 7. Don’t allow substitutions. Women frequently get away with changing movements in a DWOD or subbing less awkward movements in for more difficult exercises because of their persuasive sweet-talking-eyelash-batting delivery. If they’re injury free and you care about their success/performance don’t cave to their lady Jedi mind tricks.  No matter how infant-like their voice becomes.
  • 8. Don’t assume anything about a chick's goals. You don’t know, we could be bulking. And leaning. And trying to get a 6 min mile for a PFT. And see a bicep vein. And trying to pick up a dude in our class. All of these potential scenarios exist, so ask “What are you training for?”.

0123-WOMEN-COMBAT-sized.jpg_full_600Training women is not rocket science.  Good coaches attack and strengthen potential weaknesses. Those weaknesses, whether they be physical or psychological, are not gender specific. You cannot make assumptions about an athlete (positive, negative or otherwise) based on whether that athlete is male or female. As in any performance based environment, an athlete must be assessed and measured ideally on an individual basis. We all struggle with varying degrees of the same issues but to blindly categorize the needs of one demographic versus another is ignorant and more importantly, could result in a waste of your coaching time. Besides, if you allow an article- mine included- to provide absolute rules that dictate how you coach everyone, you're not optimizing your effectiveness. Instead, extract and enact only what works.

If there is one thing unique about training women it's that we will always be playing catch up.  It's no secret that on the whole, we are the weaker sex.  In my opinion, this puts us at a huge advantage to set an example in training.  There will always be that dangling carrot just beyond our reach forcing us to endure more, commit more, prove more.  It's no different than being the youngest sibling in a family of talented athletes.  Irrespective of gender- To bring the carrot within one's grasp, or worse, remove it altogether, is to deny one of their true potential.

CALI

CALI

A strength and conditioning coach since 2009, Cali has worked with numerous athletes spanning from rugby players to cross country skiers.Almost immediately after finding CrossFit in 2010, she was introduced to a program that better suited her athletic goals.With her existing background in powerlifting and football, she became a natural devotee to CFFB/PowerAthlete and testament to it's effectiveness.In 2012, she left D.C. and headed for the state named after her to be a part of the CrossFit Football Seminar Staff and a Jedi of Power Athlete HQ. Cali currently resides in Seattle where she works full time in law enforcement.
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23 Responses to A Different Perspective on Coaching Women

  1. Star Wars reference amd Laura Phelps Sweatt pic. Instant classic.

    Shared with my Power Athlete crew (80% women 100% jacked)

  2. Tors J

    Thank you Cali! Awesome read as a someone who is coached and I coach women and men. Awesome point about taking the advantage and chase the guys, use them to improve!

  3. Great post, thanks for acknowledging the smaller brain thing. It’s been bugging me for a while! On a more serious note, how do I curtail the hole weight loss, get skinnier thing? I’ve tried the ” focus on performance” approach. I have gotten half of my CrossFit football class to be your species, but the challenges are great. “Like what?” you are asking: Jumping around and not focusing on form and posture, grab assing, and shitty music selection.” My corrections of thier movement is sometimes taken as being “assholeish” and other times they listen and make the adjustment. What’s up with that, it’s freaking frustrating. Is it age? Muturity? Time of month? How they handle stress? Should I make the class smaller (16 athletes)? Written in a hurry so excuse the poor grammar.

    • If someone’s goal (woman or man) is lose weight you can’t change that. What you can do is say hey – if you stop eating like dogshit, you can follow a low volume, strength building, bod sculpting training system like Field Strong or CFFB instead of Murphing yourself to death. One approach is sustainable and one is not.

      How old are the females you’re working with? The attention span and coachability aspect is something that varies in all athletes. I do find that women talk a lot more (to eachother) during training. It can be very annoying when you’re trying to run a “tight ship”. My go-to is to have them partner up with a guy on a given day for the SWOD. It’s a change in stimulus and will get them to focus, as well as try and impress each other.

      In order to not come across like an asshole, always add value. If you correct someone, tell them exactly why you made the correction. Then they know you actually give a shit, rather than just enjoy giving shit. There is a difference. Most people respond well to that level of attention.

      Ex/ “Karen, keep those pullups as strict as possible.”
      -Karen rolls eyes-
      “Doing strict pullups in some workouts will increase the number of kipping pullups you can
      do…and give you a stronger back for back squat!”
      -Karen gives zero shits-
      “Strict pullups eliminate back fat.”
      -Karen gets it-

      Good luck!

  4. Fun article. By the way, I ran across some French Open last week, and Serena was playing a match. I can’t say I’m the biggest fan of tennis, but the true power displayed by her is just amazing. @John talked in one article about developing big butts and hamstrings. Serena has that covered like no one else.

  5. Ben

    I would add 2 more things on the physiology side- I don’t know the science, but it seems obsevably true to me:
    1) Expect women to handle higher % of 1RM for reps.
    2) Expect more from the lower body lifts/core than the upper body- very strong women can squat/dead more than plenty of men, but bench/press less than even a moderately trained man. Don’t let girls get away without pushing weight on squats!

  6. CW

    Great article. Reminds me of when I read Arnold’s New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding cover to cover (yeah, yeah, BBing, I know…but the guy was STRONG). The book is like 600 pages. At the end there is a section on “Women’s Bodybuilding”. It is literally one paragraph saying “It’s not any different”.

  7. @CW, Arnold’s the shit. (period).

    That is all.

  8. Good article, more people should read this.

  9. @ CW. “It”s not any different”, that says it all

    @Cali, great article, enjoyed the read

    @Ben guess I’m an exception, my upper body has always been stronger but I’ve observed what you said for the majority of my gender

  10. Sam

    Just wondering (its not relevant to this article but I didn’t know where else to ask), Are you going to show the PATS live stream on YouTube?

  11. Megan

    Great read and proud to say I have been following these same points since started coaching. Good to know i was on the right path.

  12. Great article, good insight and reminders for me as most of my gym is new to actual S&C and I have a lot of women. Now to the $1,000,000 question: how does this apply/change when the athlete is also your lady friend? The default is to not do it but I know you won’t cop out with that answer. Show me the way.

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  14. Sam

    Don’t want to sound like a nag but…
    Are you going to stream the PATS?

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